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Dear Abby: BF steps up to act as caregiver

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

Dear Abby: I have been with my boyfriend for three months. We’ve had our ups and downs. He’s more into me than I am into him. I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer, and he has offered to drive me to my surgery and help me at home in recovery. He’s also willing to take me to my follow-ups and help with anything else I may need.He’s retired, has time and resources, and he cares a great deal about me. We live about two miles apart. I like him, too. I think that after knowing someone for only a few months, it takes a special character and a huge amount of caring to take on being their caregiver after a major surgery. There will be a lot of driving to another city and back.I don’t really have anyone else — no family. I’m thankful to him for doing this, but I wonder what kind of support he is going to need and how I can show my appreciation. So far, he has been very loyal and committed. — Grateful in OregonDear Grateful: This man may b...

'Let's Kick It Party' to celebrate new MLS team in San Diego

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- Soccer fans looking to celebrate a Major League Soccer team coming to San Diego can do so this weekend at Snapdragon Stadium.The "Let's Kick It Party," organized by San Diego FC, is set for this Saturday at 7 p.m. at the stadium's East Concourse, San Diego State University said on its website.The event itself is free of charge, but fans must reserve tickets online (maximum ticket limit of four and a maximum order limit of one per account).Remember to get there early as the first 1,000 fans will receive free inaugural scarves, according to officials. New MLS team could forward youth soccer goals in San Diego Food and drinks will be available for purchase as well.Parking is also free for guests.Snapdragon Stadium, which is already the home of the San Diego State Aztec's football team and professional women's soccer team San Diego Wave FC, will be the site where the new expansion team plays.On Thursday, a news conference was held at Snapdragon Stadium to confirm San Dieg...

Mexico leader defiant after high court rules tourist train, other works not national security issues

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

MEXICO CITY (AP) — Mexico’s Supreme Court ruled Thursday the government cannot simply decree tourist trains or other public work projects to be issues of “national security,” but hours later President Andrés Manuel López Obrador published a similar order in defiance of the decision.The order handed down by high court was the latest in a string of legal setbacks for the president who has sought to broaden the discretionary powers of the presidency. The court said deeming public works projects to be matters of “national security” violates the public’s right to information about such works.López Obrador has tried to rush through some of his pet programs, including the Maya Train tourism project in the Yucatan Peninsula, by exempting them from normal permitting and public reporting, claiming it is vital to national security.And just hours after the Supreme Court ruled, the president published an order in the Official Gazette of the Federation putting a similar approach into force ...

Jordan Neely, NYC subway rider choked to death, to be mourned at Manhattan church

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

NEW YORK (AP) — Jordan Neely, whose chokehold death on the New York City subway set off a debate about vigilantism, homelessness and public safety, will be mourned by his family Friday at a church in Harlem.A former Michael Jackson impersonator who had been struggling with mental illness and homelessness in recent years, Neely died May 1 when a fellow subway rider pinned him to the floor of a subway car in a chokehold that lasted several minutes.The fatal struggle was recorded on video by an onlooker who said Neely had been yelling at other passengers as he begged for money, but hadn’t attacked anyone.Last week the man who pinned and choked Neely, Daniel Penny, was charged with manslaughter by the Manhattan district attorney. Penny’s lawyers say he was acting to protect himself and other passengers after Neely made threatening statements.The arrest polarized New Yorkers and people beyond, with some saying Penny, who is white, was too quick to use deadly force on a Black man wh...

Salman Rushdie honored at PEN America gala, first in-person appearance since stabbing

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

NEW YORK (AP) — Salman Rushdie made an emotional and unexpected return to public life Thursday night, attending the annual gala of PEN America and giving the event’s final speech as he accepted a special prize, the PEN Centenary Courage Award, just nine months being after being stabbed repeatedly and hospitalized.“It’s nice to be back — as opposed to not being back, which was also a possibility. I’m glad the dice rolled this way,” Rushdie, 75, told hundreds gathered at the American Museum of Natural History, where he received a standing ovation. It was his first in-person appearance at a public event since he was attacked last August while on stage at a literary festival in Western New York.Rushdie, whose attendance had not been announced beforehand, spoke briefly, and dedicated some of his remarks to those who came to his help at the Chautauqua Institution, a nonprofit education and retreat center. He cited a fellow attendee, Henry Reese of the City of Asylum project in Pittsburgh,...

On US Bike to Work Day, here’s how COVID, eco-thinking made cycling better in cities worldwide

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

MONTREAL (AP) — In the agonies of the virus that upended most of the world, millions of people from Bogota to Berlin saw what life could be like on two wheels instead of four.Even as commuting to the office and going to school plunged at the height of COVID lockdowns, outdoor recreation, and cycling in particular, surged in country after country as people looked to escape isolation in a relatively safe way. In response, city after city have developed bikeways with new urgency since 2020. The question is whether people stick with their new cycling habit in these closer-to-normal times. On Friday, Bike to Work Day in the U.S., the automatic counters that record each passing cyclist in many cities will get the latest numbers.So far the evidence is incomplete and varies by place. But the numbers suggest that if they build it, people will come.Case studies led by global urban planning researchers Ralph Buehler of Virginia Tech and John Bucher of Rutgers University track what more than a ...

Threatening 22 million people, Mexico’s Popocatepetl is a very closely watched volcano

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

MEXICO CITY (AP) — Mexico’s Popocatepetl volcano rumbled to life again this week, belching out towering clouds of ash that forced 11 villages to cancel school sessions.The residents weren’t the only ones keeping a close eye on the towering peak. Every time there is a sigh, tic or heave in Popocatepetl there are dozens of scientists, a network of sensors and cameras, and a roomful of powerful equipment watching its every move.The 17,797-foot (5,426-meter) volcano, known affectionately as “El Popo,” has been spewing toxic fumes, ash and lumps of incandescent rock persistently for almost 30 years, since it awakened from a long slumber in 1994.The volcano is 45 miles (72 kilometers) southeast of Mexico City, but looms much closer to the eastern fringes of the metropolitan area of 22 million people. The city also faces threats from earthquakes and sinking soil, but the volcano is the most visible potential danger — and the most closely watched. A severe eruption could cut off...

Trudeau calls out Italy on LGBTQ rights at G7, Canada to announce Russian sanctions

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

HIROSHIMA, Japan — The G7 Leaders’ Summit kicked off on Friday in Hiroshima with Prime Minister Justin Trudeau calling out Italy over LGBTQ rights and whispers of new sanctions against Russia. A government official, who is not being named because they are not authorized to discuss the details publicly, says Canada plans to announce new sanctions on Russia during the G7 Leaders’ Summit. The sanctions will target Russian companies involved in military technology, while other sanctions have to do with human rights violations, including the transfer and custody of Ukrainian children in Russia.The three-day summit is expected to focus on geopolitical and economic threats from Russia and China, with news reports suggesting G7 countries plan to announce various sanctions against Russia. Meanwhile, earlier on Friday, Trudeau spoke out against the Italian government’s stance on LGBTQ rights during a bilateral meeting with Italian Prime Minister Giorgia Meloni.“Obvious...

Stock market today: Asian shares mostly rise on hopes for US debt deal, but China declines

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

TOKYO (AP) — Asian shares were mostly higher Friday as hopes grow that the U.S. Congress will reach a deal to avoid defaulting on the nation’s debt.Japan’s benchmark Nikkei 225 rose 0.8% in early trading to 30,827.87. Australia’s S&P/ASX 200 gained 0.5% to 7,270.20. South Korea’s Kospi added 0.6% to 2,529.68. Chinese shares fell on renewed worries set off by signs an extended lockdown over the coronavirus pandemic was hurting sales. Also weighing on Chinese shares were inflationary pressures and geopolitical risks, analysts said. Hong Kong’s Hang Seng slipped 1.4% to 19,449.72, while the Shanghai Composite lost 0.7% to 3,274.87. “While the broader risk environment has been singlehandedly uplifted by progress around the U.S. debt ceiling negotiations, Chinese equities continue to struggle for gains,” said Yeap Jun Rong, market analyst at IG. President Joe Biden, now in Hiroshima for the Group of Seven summit of developed nations, has said he’s confid...

Awash in social media, how are police learning to inform the public better after shootings?

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:04:37 GMT

Jennifer Seeley was glued to her phone, safe at home but terrified nonetheless.There was an active shooter at the Texas mall where she works as an assistant store manager. And she was searching desperately for information, praying. Was the gunman dead? Were her coworkers dead? What was happening?So with law enforcement in the Dallas area town of Allen releasing information slowly on that horrible May 6 afternoon, she turned to social media for answers, stumbling across videos showing the bodies of some of the eight who were slain. Desperately she texted her coworkers.“That’s where all of my information came from was what I saw on Twitter. And, you know, nobody was really releasing any information on what actually happened,” she says now, nearly two weeks later. The shooting at the Allen Premium Outlets this month has law information public information officers from around the country talking. Social media, they say, has accelerated everything. Now everyone can post images from their...